What is The Secret of Marriage?
Everything in the universe runs on laws and rules. We violate them at our own peril. Unfortunately, many of these laws and rules are unknown to us, until we find ourselves in trouble. Then, we know that we have violated a rule, but we may still find ourselves without a clue on what the rule was!
Marriage is no different. There are rules and laws that govern the marriage relationship. But they have remained largely unknown. . . until now. Sure, there have been experts that have found better ways of relating, but we are still in a society where almost half of marriages will fail.
We are in the midst of more information and more help, and yet the divorce rate remains the same. That should be telling us something. We are failing to stop the real issue at hand.
The real issue is not better communication. It is not perfecting the marriage. It is not building a marriage free from conflict. And most of all, it is not about our mate changing to make us happy!
Join me to discover the REAL Secret to marriage! Stay tuned.
Marriage is no different. There are rules and laws that govern the marriage relationship. But they have remained largely unknown. . . until now. Sure, there have been experts that have found better ways of relating, but we are still in a society where almost half of marriages will fail.
We are in the midst of more information and more help, and yet the divorce rate remains the same. That should be telling us something. We are failing to stop the real issue at hand.
The real issue is not better communication. It is not perfecting the marriage. It is not building a marriage free from conflict. And most of all, it is not about our mate changing to make us happy!
Join me to discover the REAL Secret to marriage! Stay tuned.
posted by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. | 10:23 AM
5 Comments:
Lee, I agree there are a deluge of divorces in this country. Couples do not enter marriage with vows of the heart and mind; but with vows of words that float off their tongue as soon as they lived together for a few months. Then, their differences, and dislikes, and disagreements start to rear their ugly heads! If there is a way out; then couples feel less "tied down". This is a lie of course. If there is true committment; then love has a place to blossom; and a couple can learn to care for and nurture one another--always thinking of the better for the other. In this way both partners feel cared for; and understood. These are landmarks of a good marriage. All marriages are tested during times of trials, loss of work, a death in the family, moving, childbirth etc. It is the degree to which they work together that holds their relationship together. It is the committment of a life time that provides the freedom to grow, both individually and as a couple.
Excellent website and excellent content, Lee! The world needs more relationship help like this.
Your Colleague,
Kristin Denton
www.MagicRelationship.net
I found your interview with Amy absolutely marvelous and I would like to thank your for your wonderful idea to help couples throug internet!
Dear Lee, great is the ministry you are presenting before the world. We are gratefull as the families are the eye of the world. Thank you so much. But I have failed to get the real secret, iam reading the background which i have always read. Please advise before i miss this golden chance.
Dear Lee, Great is the ministry you have placed to the world, we are grateful because the family is the eye of the world. But i have not yet accessed the real secret. please advise.
interested reader.
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