"What's Up With The Secret Of Marriage?"
That is the question I have been bombarded with! "What'sup with The Secret of Marriage?"
Let me tell you a little bit about what's going on. First,some background:
Over the past 20 years, I have spent my career helping to save and improve marriages. I have spoken to numerous groups, written numerous articles, and have offered a best-selling ebook (which you may already know about).
What you don't know is that there has always been a burning question in my mind: What makes the difference between a failed marriage and a successful marriage?
Over the past few years, that question has burned even brighter. Slowly, I have begun to pull out some secrets to what makes the difference. These are secrets in the sense that when people in successful marriages stumble upon them, they haven't
even realized it.
I realized one day (standing in the shower, if that is not too much information for you) that I needed to take that information and get it out.
You see, I was convinced that these secrets didn't really want to be secrets. Some days, I wonder.
I worked on the project for some time. Then, one day, bad news: my hard drive crashed! Good news: I had a backup! Bad news: the files for this project were corrupted on my backup! Good news: they were able to salvage the data on my laptop. Bad news: that took several months! Good news: I had the info in my idea notebook that I always carry with me to jot observations and thoughts. Really bad news: one
day, in a torrential downpour, it fell out of my computer case. It stayed in the rain OVERNIGHT! (And ink really does become an unreadable mess!)
For a little bit, I thought the secret would remain just that. Then I was reading about Viktor Frankl, the holocaust survivor who wrote Man's Search For Meaning. His life work, his manuscript, was taken from him and destroyed when he was sent
to a Concentration Camp.
Well, I resolved to get those secrets out. And they are almost ready to be out there.
On May 1, I will be releasing videos and audios that will reveal the secret(s) to marriage. You see, there is one major secret and 3 other secrets (all reinforcing each other) that will literally transform your relationship, and well,
your life!
If you haven't already grabbed the free report about the Rules of Fair Fighting, you can do that while you are here. The link is in the post below.
The reason I haven't already released the secrets? Simple. The videos are not yet ready. I finally decided to set a deadline and make it happen. May 1st seemed manageable!
Now, with LOTS of hours behind me, I'm not so sure how manageable it really was, but I WILL make it happen!
Let me tell you a little bit about what's going on. First,some background:
Over the past 20 years, I have spent my career helping to save and improve marriages. I have spoken to numerous groups, written numerous articles, and have offered a best-selling ebook (which you may already know about).
What you don't know is that there has always been a burning question in my mind: What makes the difference between a failed marriage and a successful marriage?
Over the past few years, that question has burned even brighter. Slowly, I have begun to pull out some secrets to what makes the difference. These are secrets in the sense that when people in successful marriages stumble upon them, they haven't
even realized it.
I realized one day (standing in the shower, if that is not too much information for you) that I needed to take that information and get it out.
You see, I was convinced that these secrets didn't really want to be secrets. Some days, I wonder.
I worked on the project for some time. Then, one day, bad news: my hard drive crashed! Good news: I had a backup! Bad news: the files for this project were corrupted on my backup! Good news: they were able to salvage the data on my laptop. Bad news: that took several months! Good news: I had the info in my idea notebook that I always carry with me to jot observations and thoughts. Really bad news: one
day, in a torrential downpour, it fell out of my computer case. It stayed in the rain OVERNIGHT! (And ink really does become an unreadable mess!)
For a little bit, I thought the secret would remain just that. Then I was reading about Viktor Frankl, the holocaust survivor who wrote Man's Search For Meaning. His life work, his manuscript, was taken from him and destroyed when he was sent
to a Concentration Camp.
Well, I resolved to get those secrets out. And they are almost ready to be out there.
On May 1, I will be releasing videos and audios that will reveal the secret(s) to marriage. You see, there is one major secret and 3 other secrets (all reinforcing each other) that will literally transform your relationship, and well,
your life!
If you haven't already grabbed the free report about the Rules of Fair Fighting, you can do that while you are here. The link is in the post below.
The reason I haven't already released the secrets? Simple. The videos are not yet ready. I finally decided to set a deadline and make it happen. May 1st seemed manageable!
Now, with LOTS of hours behind me, I'm not so sure how manageable it really was, but I WILL make it happen!
Labels: marital help, marriage advice, save marriage, the secret
posted by Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. | 12:25 PM
2 Comments:
All of this information is very useful for me to know. But my wife is so hurt and so depressed about our marriage see cannot see how it will ever work again. She claims to much has been done and said to make it work. She can't think of anything positive about us. She has feelings for another man.
The amazing thing to me is how a marriage can turn around to the positive so easily. It's almost like we are holding a cork under, saying it is hopeless that it will ever float again. Then, we let it go and it pops to the surface!
Hang in there!
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