World-Renowned Expert Reveals. . .
The Secret is OUT!
The Secret That Determines YOUR
Marriage’s Failure Or Success Is
Will You Grab It. . . Or Miss Out?
The Opportunity Of Having
The Marriage You Dream Of!
What would it mean to you if you knew the secret to a happy marriage? Would that transform your relationship? What if you knew how to end the conflict and pain, how to restore the love and connection? Wouldn’t that be worthwhile? Even priceless?
What if, for all this time, the secret of marriage has been hidden? What would you do if you knew the secret? What would be different in your life?
Well, that is the truth! I firmly believe that marriages that succeed have “stumbled” upon these secrets. And marriages that failed, well, they never discovered them.
The sad fact is that almost 50% of marriages will never discover the secrets. But you don’t have to be in that half of the marriages. Now, you can become a part of the successful half. More than that, you can become part of the 10 to 20% who claim to have happy, thriving marriages!
I thought “It can’t be that simple,” but it was. It really was! I discovered the path to happiness in our marriage almost instantly!
--Laurie M., Cincinnati, Ohio
Have you ever had the feeling that there just had to be some piece of information that you were missing? Some knowledge that would finally turn the key?
You should, because that is truly the case. There is a secret, but it doesn’t want to be hidden. Many secrets stay hidden, but this one is a secret because it hadn’t been discovered, until now.
“Why Is Marriage So Diffficult?”
We all know the painful statistics: nearly 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. 1 in 3 children can expect their parents to divorce. We are eternally optimistic. We believe we can beat the statistics!
A recent Louis Harris survey found that 96% of college students want to marry or already are married. Ninety-seven per cent agreed with this statement -- "Having close family relationships is a key to happiness."
When we get married, we often stroll into the courthouse, purchase a marriage license, and off we go to a short ceremony. We get married at a church, in a garden, at a home, or some other location. Everyone is excited, patting us on the back. We get the “congratulations,” then we are shoved out the door to figure out how to do it, how to be married. And
every other couple walking out the door will face divorce.
“Marriage is difficult,” we tell ourselves. But marriage is NOT as difficult as we make it out to be. The problem is, we don’t know what makes a marriage work, what the secret to a marriage really is.
Couples who discover the secret (really a series of secrets) survive. And if they learn enough, they thrive. Then, they realize that marriage is not difficult, you just have to understand it.
We just love to moan and cry about how difficult it is to be married and stay married, much less how to be happily married. Now, there is a choice: keep buying that little myth or discover what marriage is really about. Unlock the secret of marriage!
Who Am I?
My name is Lee Baucom. If you Google me, you will discover over 101,000 results. Some of the results might be about races I was in (don’t hold my poor running results against me. . . hey, I did finish the trail marathon!), but most are about my thoughts and ideas about marriage.
I show you this screenshot of the Google search to let you know that I have been around for a while!
I have been interviewed for articles in magazines such as Men’s Health, the japanese language Time, a Golf magazine, and many newspaper articles. 20/20 called for advice and help on a story about marriage, as did several reality shows.
Several years back, I wrote an ebook, Save The Marriage. That ebook has sold nearly 50,000 copies to couples all over the world. Then, I hosted an online marriage workshop, Transform Your Marriage. Thousands of people have taken part in this virtual workshop.
Because of these events, I have had many opportunities to talk with people about marriage, help marriages in trouble, and think about the true meaning of marriage. Now, I am opening a new era in my thinking.
After spending almost 20 years saving marriage after marriage, I have also had the opportunity to watch healthy marriages.
One major question burned in my mind: why did some couples have a successful, happy marriage and other couples have dismal, painful, unsuccessful marriages?
I quickly noticed that there are some distinct differences between the two. I now know that there are distinct, clear, and learnable secrets of marriage.
That led me to find a way to get that information out to you, to let you take advantage of my discovery! You are now seeing the results of my efforts.
Let me be clear: I did not invent these secrets. They have always been out there. I am no more the creator of them than Thomas Edison was the inventor of electricity. However, like Edison, I have discovered how to harness the capacity of what has already been there.
Edison helped people take something powerful that was already there and bring it into their homes, so it could benefit them. I am bringing the secrets of marriage into a form that you can readily understand and access.
Oh, and if you are wondering, I am married. For almost 20 years, I have been married to the same wonderful woman. And sometimes, we had to discover new secrets to make our marriage happy.
While I could say that my marriage has been the laboratory for this, that is not as true as saying that I have taken these secrets and applied them to couple after couple with the same results: success! Thriving marriages, happy couples, and healed marriages.
Dr. Baucom, thank you so much for your insights and help! When I first contacted you, we were literally at the end of our ropes. We had tried 3 therapists, read countless books, and still had the same problems.
I knew we were headed for divorce. But you encouraged me, gave me some new understandings, and we have turned the marriage around.
As my husband said, “we ain’t done, but we ain’t dead!” Thank you.
--Susie R., Fresno, California
Divorce Is Not The Answer,
And Therapy May Not Help!
People often ask me if I believe in divorce. My joking response is “yes, I’ve seen it. I believe in it.” I just think it can, almost always, be avoided. I don’t believe in saving abusive relationships. However, I think we too easily end marriages more often than not -- and for easily avoided reasons!
The statistics are quoted and known by everyone: nearly 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce. We’ve already established that. But that statistic doesn’t change for couples who go to therapy. According to studies, almost 50% of couples in therapy end up divorced. Only 10 to 20% of couples
who go to therapy see any significant help from counseling.
Imagine going to a doctor. He tells you that you need to undergo a procedure. The procedure itself has a 50% mortality rate. And if you survive, you only have a 10 to 20% chance of improvement. You tell me: would you go have the procedure? Yet couple after couple goes to marital therapy.
And the statistics for 2nd and 3rd (and 4th, 5th, 6th, etc.) marriages are dismal. The chance of staying married in a following marriage are MUCH lower than 50%. So, divorce doesn’t solve anything.
Besides, divorces: rarely end a relationship (children keep you attached, like it or not), destroy finances (both in direct divorce costs -- average cost is $20,000, plus emotional costs and financial losses), undermine happiness, and have a negative impact on children.
So, divorce isn’t the answer. Marital therapy likely won’t help. And an unhappy marriage doesn’t cut it. IS THERE AN ANSWER?
Absolutely! That is what I am here to tell you! You did not find your way to this site by accident. You are here to discover the Secret of Marriage.
“Will The Secret Of Marriage Help ME?
That is a very fair question! Let’s face it, there is no way I am going to save every marriage. But the only one that really matters to you is, well, yours!
Here’s the interesting thing in my mind, we all know people who have divorced. They are not bad people (OK, some may be unpleasant!). So divorce is not an issue just for bad people, bad communicators, etc., etc., etc. Divorce happens to perfectly wonderful people. . . who just don’t know how to stay married!
So, is this for you?
- Are you struggling to stay married, worried that you may be headed for trouble?
- Are you faced with the looming prospect of divorce?
- Does your spouse think your marriage is hopeless. . . and you mostly agree?
- Do you find yourself having the same issues over and over, unable to break out of the painful patterns?
- Or are you trying to make sure you have the best information to keep your marriage on-track?
- Or are you preparing for marriage and want to get started on the best possible footing?
- Or are you in a committed relationship, contemplating marriage, but want to know what makes a marriage work?
If you answered “YES” to any of those, The Secret Of Marriage will be invaluable to you! You need to grab the program.
If you have already given up, convinced that there is nothing more that can be done to save your marriage, this is NOT for you. If your spouse feels that way, you can still benefit. This program will help you, even if your spouse is ready to “throw in the towel.”
You see, most marriage programs focus on what is WRONG with the marriage. That gets you stuck in the problems. So, it only serves to validate a spouse who thinks it is hopeless.
My program focuses on what can be RIGHT, and how to get there. It is, as I often say, the difference between going on an archeology dig and deciding to build something. One gives you a bunch of old bones (useful, but not helpful in looking forward). The other gives you something brand new.
This program is ALL ABOUT BUILDING, not about digging. Wouldn’t you like to be a part of that?
First, let me tell you that I was amazed that you answered the phone yourself! Then, when you worked with me for 1 hour, I felt like I had hope. More than that, I had a plan. What you have given us is priceless. We are no longer talking divorce. Instead, we are planning a vacation and a future! From the bottom of my heart, Thank You!
--Jason S., Fort Lauderdale, Florida
“What IS The Secret Of Marriage?”
So glad you asked! You see, The Secret Of Marriage is an incredible program that I have been developing over the past months.
I have to tell you, it almost didn’t happen. I realized there were these secrets some time ago. I thought the secrets needed to be shared, but it seemed that the secrets didn’t want to be shared.
First, after working hard on the material, my laptop’s hard drive crashed. That was bad news! The good news was I had a backup. The bad news was the section that contained this material was corrupted!
Good news was the contents of my hard drive could be salvaged. Bad news was I found it would take a while. But good news was I still had my writer’s notebook with my handwritten information. Bad news was the night I dropped the notebook on my driveway in the rain, and didn’t notice it. The next day, I discovered how
much ink can run when it gets wet!
But I persevered, and took a note from one of my heroes, Viktor Frankl. You see, when he was taken to a Concentration Camp during the Holocaust, they destroyed his manuscript he had spent years on. But during his experience there and afterward, he rewrote a better work, one that has impacted millions of people.
I decided I needed to get this information out to the world, so I started from scratch. In fact, you are here today for a simple reason: I had to set a deadline to get this information out. . . and here it is!
The Secret Of Marriage is the complete program to teach you how to improve, understand, even save your marriage, regardless of the current situation.
This program is designed to bring you the information in the simplest, most direct method possible: videos! That’s right. I have created a multi-media product that saves you from having to even read. Let’s face it, if you are worried about your marriage, it may even be difficult to focus on a book. Now
you don’t have to. You can watch the videos and learn how to save your relationship.
As you can probably tell, I am proud of this information! You won’t find it anywhere else. It has been tested and re-tested. I can tell you: the information works. You need only watch the videos and apply the information.
But if that weren’t enough, I am also providing the audios from the videos, so that you can listen to them after you have taken in the videos. This will reinforce what you have seen and help you to reprogram your understandings.
You will find a complete description of the program later in this letter, so please keep reading!
What You Will Discover:
The truth about marriage. What it REALLY is about! Forget the myth
How your brain and your mind affect your marriage. And what to DO about it!
Why you can change the direction of the marriage BY YOURSELF.
And more importantly, HOW you can do this. Imagine “marital judo,” using the energy of the relationship to transform it, even when the energy is negative!
If That Is Not Enough:
Discover where change starts, and how you can use this knowledge to get in control of the situation (NOT the same as being controlling!).
Learn about commitment, and how it becomes your friend, not the enemy, when you know what it is about!
Find the ONE TRUTH that eludes the majority of marriages, leading to a lifetime of unhappiness, but if understood, leads to a lifetime of bliss!
Discover why you must STOP “reading the tea leaves” and start taking action (and what action to take, RIGHT NOW!).
Not Only That, But Also:
Learn the astonishing truth about communication. It isn’t the heart of problems, and when you act like it is, you are headed for disaster.
Discover the unique power of a marriage to heal, when given the opportunity. Learn how to apply this principle to bring about healing and understanding.
Learn how resentment eats away at a marriage and how to transform resentment into attachment.
Discover the “blinders” we all wear that keep us from seeing the truth of what our marriage is about. Find how to get rid of the blinders, once and for all!
Still Not Enough? How About:
Find clarity of vision about your marriage, even if you think you are seeing things clearly (you are not, and neither is your spouse). If you keep seeing things the
way you do now, you will continue to get the problems you already have.
Build new intentions and focus, destroying the negative intentions that have held your marriage back.
Discover a whole new level of forgiveness that you never knew existed. And find out how to make forgiveness an everyday task!
Unlock the Secrets Of Marriage, starting today, right now!
Dr. Baucom, you HAVE to stop referring to this as a SECRET! It is a TREASURE! This should be mandatory for anyone getting married, and recommended for anyone married. The information is wise enough to help anyone create a happy marriage, and powerful enough to help anyone get their marriage back together.
M., Santa Fe, New Mexico
Here’s What I Want To Get Into Your Hands:
Included in The Secret Of Marriage Program:
Part #1: The Secret Of Marriage Videos
A series of 6 videos, each building on the other, to give you a multi-media presentation of the material! You will see and hear the information, so that it really gets into your mind, your understanding.
No Hollywood actors here; just great information for you to use IMMEDIATELY!
You can either watch the videos online or download them to your computer. Your choice! And you can watch them anytime, as often as you wish.
Part #2: The Secret Of Marriage Audios
After you have watched the videos, you can keep listening to the recordings. You can download them to your computer, IPod, or other mp3 player, and listen as refreshers.
Doing so will reinforce the material, get it deeper into your brain, and help you take action even more quickly.
What the latest research shows is repetition in a number of different formats creates quantum leaps in learning. You are actually reprogramming yourself.
Part #2: An Exclusive “Members Only” Area
On an unlimited basis, for no extra charge, you can go to the Members Only Area to discuss the ideas, meet others in similar situations, and get advice from others.
Learning happens best in a supportive environment, surrounded by others taking the same journey!
With this in mind, I have designed an area that will let you get the extra help you need to make the changes in your marriage.
So, there you have it! An unbeatable program to learn the Secret of Marriage and apply it to your marriage!
If that was all, it would be enough to unlock the secret to a successful marriage. But my colleagues have “sweetened the deal.” Some of the outstanding names in helping marriages have decided to throw in bonuses to help you really move forward even quicker.
Special Introductory Bonuses EXCLUSIVELY For The Secret Of Marriage Program Participants:
Bonus #1: What To Do When The Talking Stops by Amy Waterman
An excellent resource from an expert in the field! This ebook can help you develop more effective strategies for communicating with your spouse.
When you are in the midst of a “communication freeze,” this resource can really help you cause a “thaw” and reestablish a loving, talking relationship.
If communication is an issue in your marriage, you NEED this bonus!
Bonus #2: Ebook: Change of Heart by Paul and Jennifer Thibeault
This powerful ebook is no longer available, even though it should be! Inside, you will find how Paul and Jennifer saved their marriage in front of thousands of people, and how you can do the same (without the crowd!).
You will only find it HERE, but it can really change your perspective. . . and it is a perfect accompaniment to one of my secrets!
Bonus #3: Ebook: Affair-Proof Your Marriage: Fifteen Steps You Can Take Now by Nancy Wasson, Ph.D.
Another powerful ebook that will help you keep the danger of an affair from your marriage. . . and if it has already happened, how to keep it from happening again.
Nancy is a well-respected expert in helping people save their marriage, and this is an excellent resource from her.
Bonus #4: Audio: Magic Relationship Method with Relationship Coaches Paul Sterling and Kristin Denton
If you are not familiar with the Magic Relationship Method, then you should be! This is a method to help you learn to communicate much more effectively in your relationship.
This recording is going to give you a starting point to apply this program in your marriage! You won’t want to miss it.
I was working on this project, spending hours on the videos and other information, then my colleagues showed up with the bonuses. Suddenly, it dawned on me that this package would be worth it if all you got were the bonuses!
These aren’t some off-subject extra that someone threw in. All are top-notch, first-rate material. And you won’t find this bundle anywhere else.
In fact, some of the bonuses can’t be found anywhere else, at any price. But you get them at no extra charge! I will warn you, you will have to act soon! Not all of my colleagues are willing to have unlimited numbers of their information-rich resources simply given away for free! When they tell me, the
bonuses come down.
The whole package is there, for you to grab, if you are ready to unlock the secret of marriage. Will YOU be the next to take action?
I will soon be offering this package for
$147.97 (and without the bonuses). That will be a steal for information that can transform a marriage and spare a divorce. But for RIGHT NOW, you can grab everything for the incredible price of $99.97!
That’s right. You get access to all the videos, all the audios, the Members Only area, 3 extra ebooks, and a bonus recording (not to mention the Q & A session if you act quickly!) for this incredibly low price!
But you will have to act soon. Very soon, the price goes up and the included bonuses go down. Don’t wait to get started learning the secrets. Your marriage will lose out and the cost will go up.
CLICK HERE TO GRAB THE PROGRAM NOW!
As the commercial goes:
Cost of the course: way to low!
Cost of my time: can’t begin to calculate!
Value of my marriage: PRICELESS!
--Bill S., Midlothian Virginia
Will YOU Discover The Secret Of Marriage?
Your opportunity is before you. But there is something I have learned after 2 decades of helping people: until you are ready to help yourself, there is nothing I can do.
You have to take action for anything to change. And change does take effort. If anyone tells you that they have an instant cure for anything worthwhile, they are lying. “Overnight riches” and “overnight marriage cures” fall into the same category. Anything worthwhile will take effort.
My guess, though, is all your efforts are currently in the wrong direction. By not knowing what to move TOWARD, we tend to try to move AWAY from something. That is a recipe for failure. You have to know where to go toward.
Let’s face it, a marriage does not get into a crisis overnight. It will take time for the marriage to turn around. So the question is: will you make the effort? Will you take the action? I have the key. I know the secret. I can show you what to do and
how to do it. You must take it from there. Will you let me show you the secret?
Take Action Now!
Don’t Wait Until It Is Too Late!
You can call it a ‘paradigm shift.’ I call it a Full Reboot! I didn’t believe there was anything you could say that would change my thinking. But I thought I would play along! I was wrong! After watching the first two videos, I could feel something welling up in me. It was somewhere between excitement and tears! I finally saw an option. I saw things differently. I let go of the blame
and anger, and decided to move forward.
Guess what? Well, you probably already know this one. . . it worked! She was already out of the house, living across town. In fact, she was talking with someone. But we are back together, happier than ever. What a deal! I get back my wife, and you get, what, half the cost of a cheap attorney for an hour? I may not be a math genius, but I know who got the good deal!
-- “Red” J., St. Louis, Missouri
Every crisis has a window of opportunity. In fact, every situation has a window of opportunity. Nothing is static, particularly a marriage. By their very nature (something I discuss in Unlocking The Secret Of Marriage), relationships either grow and improve or devolve and worsen.
I can tell you this, if you do nothing, you will one day regret it. If you do something, one of two things will happen: the damage was done and cannot be fixed or (more likely) the marriage will be saved (and improved). In the unlikely event that you cannot salvage the marriage with the secrets you learn, then
at least you know that you did EVERYTHING possible. If you turn the marriage around for the better, you will reap the rewards of the relationship.
You can’t go wrong! In fact, I guarantee it. If you follow my advice, employ the secrets, really work to turn the marriage around, and find that you cannot, I will return your money, no questions asked. You will walk away with more knowledge and understanding, and I will give you a full refund (but only if
you promise to put forth the effort to use the material for 1 full month).
You have 8 weeks to decide, so use the material for four weeks, then you still have 4 weeks to evaluate it. YOU SIMPLY CAN’T LOSE, unless you don’t act.
I will take all the risk, and you will receive all the benefits. Show me where else that happens in life.
The only question you really have to answer is “are you willing to take a risk on the marriage?” I’ve already removed the risk from getting the information. If you are ready to take action, you will know it -- and you will act! If you only talk about improving your marriage, you will know that, too. In
that case, this is not for you!
If you have read this far, you are ready to take action. Do it now! Don’t let another day of indecision and inaction (or ineffective action) keep you from having the marriage you dream of.
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I wish you all the best in your marriage, and look forward to seeing you in the Program!
Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
The Secret Of Marriage
4949 Brownsboro Road, Suite 147
Louisville, Kentucky 40222
Lee @ TheSecretOfMarriage.com
P.S.: This program is not for everyone! I am looking for those who are ready to unlock the secret of marriage!
You will get the series of 6 videos, 6 audios, a Member’s Only area, bonuses including 3 ebooks and a recording, and for those acting quickly, the Q&A session. So if you are ready to quit being upset about your marriage and you are ready to take action, NOW IS THE TIME!
Click below to grab the program!